The President of the United States, as well as many other persons in authority (presidents of organizations, CEOs, etc.) frequently choose people to surround them as advisors and members of their cabinets. These advisors are often selected because they will tell the president what he WANTS to hear, not what he NEEDS to hear. The Good Book offers some valuable, albeit unexpected, advice on the quality most needed in advisors: truth telling. We are to stop telling falsehoods and to start speaking the truth to each other (Ephesians 4:25) in all areas of life, including saying tough truths to elected officials of one’s own party. The Book of Proverbs in the Hebrew Scriptures tell us, “You can trust a friend who corrects you, but kisses from an enemy are nothing but lies.” (27:6)  Being corrected is not fun. It hurts…our pride at least. But it can restore us to the right path. A good friend tells us what we NEED to hear, even when we don’t like it.

If President Trump has any good friends, surely they should be found within his closest advisors (Vice President Vance, Marco Rubio and the rest of his Cabinet, House Speaker Johnson, MAGA leaders, etc.). In this brief post, I ask where are Trump’s advisors regarding the war with Iran and regarding his arrogant actions of vanity. If he has any good friends, they seem to be AWOL.

The War with Iran

During his election campaign, candidate Trump made some important promises. He pledged to not take us into any new war, especially an “endless” war in the Middle East. Many voters agreed with this new kind of “peace” Republican candidate. Trump broke his promise. Three months ago, together with Israel, our junior partner, Trump launched a war against Iran. There was no imminent threat. It was a war of choice. A few MAGA celebrities (like Tucker Carlson and Marjorie Taylor Greene) tried to remind the president of his broken promise. World leaders, including the Pope and NATO allies, attempted to speak truth into the ears of the president, but he would not listen. It is reported that VP Vance tried to persuade Trump not to go to war with Iran, but it looks like he did not try hard enough. The voices of the “yes men” (like Hegseth) were too loud. Did any in his cabinet anticipate the Iranian closure of the vital Strait of Hormuz? If so, they didn’t speak up. Did anyone anticipate that NATO allies would pursue their own national interests? Did we consult with them before we went to war? No. Did anyone tell Trump that military superiority does not necessarily mean winning the war. No. Did anyone seek a declaration of war from Congress? No.

The war is not going well, in spite of the cheerleading Hegseth. It took years for the American people to finally disapprove of the wars in Viet Nam and Iraq. It has taken less than three months for Americans to come to the same realization about this war with Iran. Although Trump, as Commander-in-Chief, is ultimately responsible for taking us into a misguided war, he should have selected truth-tellers for his advisors, not lying sycophants.

Vanity of Vanities

A vast majority of Americans, including those who support Trump, acknowledge that the president is a very vain person. It is reported that he considers himself in the company of the greatest rulers of human history: Alexander the Great, Julius Caesar, and Napoleon. It is no wonder that some of his presidential actions have nothing to do with national security or economic affordability and everything to do with his own vanity…and these actions are not popular with the U.S. people.

The president has proposed the construction of a 250-foot-tall arch to be located at Memorial Circle, near the entrance to Arlington National Cemetery, at the other end of the Arlington Memorial Bridge. The arch would be more than twice as tall as the Lincoln Memorial. Trump bragged, “I’d like it to be the biggest [arch] of all,” even larger than the 164-foot-tall Arc De Triomphe in Paris. Only 21% of Americans support the construction of the arch, whereas 52% oppose it, with the remainder being unsure.

Back in July 2025, Trump announced the construction of a 90,000-square-foot ballroom off the East Wing of the White House and promised “it won’t interfere with the current building.” By October, demolition started on the century old structure. The ABC News/Washington Post/Ipsos poll finds that more than half of Americans, 56%, oppose tearing down the East Wing to make way for a ballroom, with 28% in support and 15% unsure.

Two months ago, the U.S. Treasury Department announced that President Trump’s infamous signature would appear on future U.S. currency. This would be a first for a sitting president, as no previous U.S. president’s name has ever appeared on money. North Americans oppose printing Trump’s signature on paper money instead of the treasury secretary’s by a wider margin than either the ballroom or the arch: 68% oppose it while just 12% support it. Another 19% say they aren’t sure.

If these initiatives are designed to contribute to the president’s lasting legacy, they are not working. They reveal the illusions of grandeur of a “little man” or worse, a person whose mental capacities are sliding off the rails.

Where are Trump’s true friends who should tell him such actions are not appropriate of a great statesman? Perhaps, he doesn’t have such friends who will speak the truth to him. At the very least, there are Republican pollsters who make their living by interpreting the polls. Where are they when Trump needs them?

Mr. President, remove the liars from your Cabinet and replace them with persons who will tell you the truth.